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Marriage is...Responsibility & Servanthood Part 2




guard, charge, function, obligation, service, watch, house of detention or confinement, keeping, preserving, injunction, office, function (ceremonial)


The Husband is chosen by Adonai as the head of the household. This role of husband involves well-defined duties and - when the obligations are fulfilled - tremendous honor.


The Lord expects the responsible man to act as a watchman or guard. The guard accepts responsibility of anything that occurs under his watch. This is particularly a role of the husband as head of the household under the command of Adonai.



They were responsible for the ark, the table, the menorah, the altars,

the utensils the cohanim use when they serve in the Holy Place, the curtain,

and everything involved with the maintenance of these things.

Numbers 3:31


Adonai said to Aharon, "You, your sons and your father's family line will be

responsible for anything that goes wrong in the sanctuary. You and your sons with you

will be responsible for anything wrong in your service as cohanim.

Numbers 18:1



to seek, require, desire, exact, request, to seek to find, to seek to secure, to seek the face,  to desire, demand, to be sought


In marriage, it is the husband who is to be responsible for himself and for many others under him in his household and family. The honor of the family or household depends on the work of the husband to keep his account with Adonai in balance.


Responsibility contains an element of exchange or payment. There is a value system placed on the role of responsibility. There is great honor in being given a responsibility, but there are great requirements as well



After seven days the word of Adonai came to me:"Son of man being, I have appointed you to be a watchman for the house of Isra'el. When you hear a word from my mouth, you are to warn them for me. If I say to a wicked person, 'You will certainly die'; and you fail to warn him, to speak and warn the wicked person to leave his wicked way and save his life; then that wicked person will die guilty; and I will hold you responsible for his death. On the other hand, if you warn the wicked person, and he doesn't turn from his wickedness or his wicked way, then he will still die guilty; but you will have saved your own life. Similarly, when a righteous person turns away from his righteousness and commits wickedness, I will place a stumbling block before him — he will die; because you failed to warn him, he will die in his sin; his righteous acts which he did will not be remembered; and I will hold you responsible for his death.   But if you warn the righteous person that a righteous person should not sin, and he doesn't sin; then he will certainly live, because he took the warning; and you too will have saved your life."

Ezekiel 3:16-21


"Son of man, speak to your people; say to them, 'Suppose I bring the sword on a country, and the people of that country take one of their men and appoint him their watchman. Now if, upon seeing the sword coming against that country, he blows the shofar and warns the people; then, if the sword comes and takes away someone who heard the sound of the shofar but paid no attention to it, the responsibility for that person's death will be his own —he heard the shofar but paid no attention, so the responsibility for his death is his own; whereas if he had paid attention, he would have saved his life. But if the watchman sees the sword coming and does not blow the shofar, so that the people are not warned; and then the sword comes and takes any one of them, that one is indeed taken away in his guilt, but I will hold the watchman responsible for his death.' "Likewise you, son of man — I have appointed you as watchman for the house of Isra'el. Therefore, when you hear the word from my mouth, warn them for me. When I tell the wicked person, 'Wicked person, you will certainly die'; and you fail to speak and warn the wicked person to leave his way; then that wicked person will die guilty; and I will hold you responsible for his death. On the other hand, if you warn the wicked to turn from his way, and he doesn't turn from his way; then he will still die guilty, but you will have saved your own life. "Therefore, you, human being, say to the house of Isra'el: 'You say, "Our crimes and sins are weighing us down, we're pining away because of them, how can we even stay alive?" ' Say to them, 'As I live,' swears Adonai Elohim, 'I take no pleasure in having the wicked person die, but in having the wicked person turn from his way and live. So repent! Turn from your evil ways! For why should you die, house of Isra'el?'

Ezekiel 33:2-11



to command, charge, give orders, lay charge, give charge to, order to ,to give charge over, appoint,  commission, ordain (of divine act)


As our betrothed in Heaven, our Lord is the protection and the covering of every human who seeks Him. It is Adonai who has appointed the husband as the one responsible for the covering of the marriage and the household.


Responsibility requires complete and perfect obedience to the Lord in order for the effect of complete protection to be accomplished


For He will give His angels charge concerning you, To guard you in all your ways.

Psalm 91:11

For the Tanakh says, 'He will order his angels to be responsible for you and to protect you.

Luke 4:10

A person is responsible to prepare his heart, but how the tongue speaks is from Adonai.

Proverbs 16:1



Class 17: : Responsibility & Servanthood: Part 2
• One of the “responsibilities” of YHVH’s servants is that a GUARD
o In the natural, a guard’s job is well understood.
§ Does that same job apply to the husband or head of household? Is a husband supposed to be the guard and the protector of his family? Are there any differences between a security guard in a bank or a place of business and the husband who guards his family?
§ Does that job also apply to the wife? Is a wife also a guard? Does a wife and mother have the responsibility to guard over her household and her children?
o We have spoken already about the need for a married couple to GUARD or PROTECT their marriage:
§ Give an example of an ACTION that would guard or protect the marriage
§ Is there a SPIRITUAL STRATEGY OR WEAPON that particularly works well to guard a marriage?


Clase 17: Responsabilidad y Servidumbre: Parte 2
• Una de las "responsabilidades" de los siervos de YHVH es CUIDAR (VELAR)
o En lo natural, el guardia entiende su trabajo muy bien.
§ ¿Aplica el mismo trabajo al esposo o cabeza de familia? ¿Esta supuesto que un marido sea el guardia y protector de su familia? ¿Hay algunas diferencias entre un guardia de seguridad en un banco o un lugar de trabajo y el esposo que custodia (vela) por su familia?
§ ¿Aplica este trabajo también a la esposa? Es la esposa también un guardia? ¿Tiene una esposa y madre la responsabilidad de proteger a su hogar y sus hijos?
o Hemos hablado ya de la necesidad de la pareja casada que vele o proteja su matrimonio:
§ De un ejemplo de una ACCION para custodiar o proteger el matrimonio § ¿Existe una ESTRATEGIA ESPIRITUAL o arma que particularmente funcione bien para proteger el matrimonio?

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