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536 you can’t teach what you don’t know


B’resheet 18:19-32


SYNOPSIS: There was this story in the news over the past few weeks. It was about parents trying to shame their kids by using social media. Does this work? Then this last week the large black man was about to do this to his son but then turned it around. He said this is no way to teach your children a lesson. He went on and on then brought some of Jesus into the mix. Is this correct what the man said? Is this no way to chastise your children? Or is the jesus guy really the problem? We will see how this all applies in the fivefold lessons learned from Av Hamon Goyim.


SECTION 1: THE FIVEFOLD LESSON FROM THE BEGININNING: We learn a very important lesson from the new name given to Avram. There are 5 deeply profound lessons to be meditated on from B’resheet 18:19. The first is orders to children and household. The Second keep the way. The Third do what is right. The Fourth do what is just. The Fifth get the promise. See How Jew and Gentile are supposed to be one house from the very beginning of the covenant. How all this applies to the seven seals of judgment in Revelation


SECTION 2: PARENTING SKILLS 101. If you teach from the time a baby is born the fear of Yehovah you will be blessed. The adversary satan’s greatest achievement after making people think he is not real is this. The evil one second greatest achievement it to break up the family. To make children not honor the Father and Mother. But how can you teach what you don’t know? We all need to circumcise our own hearts so that we are not the generation that ushers in the breaking of those seals.



What is so important about this face to face conversation between Yehovah and Avraham


B’resheet 18:19-32

Gen 18:20  Adonai said, "The outcry against S'dom and `Amora is so great and their sin so serious


Gen 4:10  He said, "What have you done? The voice of your brother's blood is crying out to me from the ground!


Gen 18:20 

Gen 18:23 


RDW-Lev tahor


Heb 10:22  Therefore, let us approach the Holiest Place with a sincere heart, in the full assurance that comes from trusting — with our hearts sprinkled clean from a bad conscience and our bodies washed with pure water.

Gen 18:25-26

Gen 18:25 

Gen 18:25-26

Gen 18:32 


Gen 18:19  For I have made myself known to him, so that he will give orders to his children and to his household after him to keep the way of Adonai and to do what is right and just, so that Adonai may bring about for Avraham what he has promised him."


There are 5 deeply profound lessons to be meditated on in v19

The first is orders to children and household, Second keep the way, Third do what is right, Fourth do what is just, Fifth get the promise


Gen 18:19 


Gen 17:5  Your name will no longer be Avram [exalted father], but your name will be Avraham [father of many], because I have made you the father of many nations.


In the Hebrew it says

Av – Father

Many – Hamon

If you just mouse over it says Ger or Goy meaning singular but if you go to the Hebrew text you see a mem sofet meaning plural

Goyim – Nations


Gen 18:19 


WAY - H1870 דּרך  Derek BDB Definition: 1) way, road, distance, journey, manner, path, direction, habit, 2) of course of life (figuratively) 3) of moral character (figuratively)


Right - H6666 צדקה  tsedâqâh BDB Definition: 1) justice, righteousness 2) righteousness (in government) 3) of judge, ruler, king 4) of law 5) righteousness (of God’s attribute) 6) righteousness (as ethically right) 7) of God 8) righteous acts


Ref: Gen 14:20  and blessed be El `Elyon, who handed your enemies over to you." Avram gave him a tenth of everything.


Gen 18:19 

Gen 18:26


Rev 6:1-17

Rev 6:15  Then the earth's kings, the rulers, the generals, the rich and the mighty — indeed, everyone, slave and free — hid himself in caves and among the rocks in the mountains, Rev 6:16  and said to the mountains and rocks, "Fall on us, and hide us from the face of the One sitting on the throne and from the fury of the Lamb!


Rev 6:16 

Rev 6:1-4

Rev 6:5

Rev 6:6

Rev 6:7-8

Rev 6:8


Gen 18:19 


Rev 6:8 

Rev 6:9-11

Rev 6:12

Rev 6:15-17

Rev 6:16 


Yirmeyahu 8:1-6

Jer 8:3  All the survivors of this evil family who remain wherever I have driven them will prefer death to life," says Adonai-Tzva'ot.


Jer 8:4-5


Keep backsliding = H4878  משׁבה  /  משׁוּבה  meshûbâh BDB Definition: turning away, turning back, apostasy, backsliding


Jer 8:5

Jer 8:6




Pro 28:7  A wise son observes Torah, but a friend of those lacking restraint shames his father.


Wise – discerning H995 בּין  bı̂yn BDB Definition: 1) to discern, understand, consider 2) to perceive 3) to understand, know (with the mind) 4) to observe, mark, give heed to, distinguish, consider 5) understanding 6) to teach, instruct


Law – TORAH H8451 תּרה  /  תּורה  tôrâh BDB Definition: 1) law, direction, instruction

Shame – humiliate H3637 כּלם  kâlam BDB Definition: 1) to insult, shame, humiliate, blush, be ashamed, be put to shame, be reproached, be put to confusion, be humiliated 2) dishonoured

1Kefa 4:1-4

1Pe 4:3  For you have spent enough time already living the way the pagans want you to live — in debauchery, lust, drunkenness, orgies, wild parties and forbidden idol-worship.


Orgies what is that definition G766 ἀσέλγεια aselgeia Thayer Definition:  unbridled lust, excess, licentiousness, lasciviousness, wantonness, outrageousness, shamelessness, insolence


1Pe 4:3-4


Mishlei 19:25-27

Pro 19:27  My son, if you stop heeding discipline, you will stray from the principles of knowledge.


Principals – words H561 אמר  'êmer BDB Definition: utterance, speech, word, saying, promise, command


Reprove - H3198 יכח  yâkach BDB Definition: to prove, decide, judge, rebuke, reprove, correct, be right


Mishlei 29:15-18

Pro 29:15  The rod and rebuke give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings shame on his mother.


Pro 29:16 

Pro 29:17


Discipline – correct H3256 יסר  yâsar BDB Definition: to chasten, discipline, instruct, admonish


It is Nuach H5117  נוּח  nûach BDB Definition: 1) to rest 2) settle down and remain 3) to repose, have rest, be quiet


Pro 29:18 

Prophetic Vision H2377  חזון  châzôn BDB Definition: vision, oracle, prophecy (divine communication)


Throw of all RESTRAINT H6544  פּרע  pâra‛  BDB Definition: 1) to lead, act as leader 2) to let go, let loose, ignore, let alone 3) to show lack of restraint


D’rarim 10:12-20

Deu 10:12  "So now, Isra'el, all that Adonai your God asks from you is to fear Adonai your God, follow all his ways, love him and serve Adonai your God with all your heart and all your being;


Deu 10:16 

Stiffneck H7185 קשׁה  qâshâh BDB Definition: 1) to be hard, be severe, be fierce, be harsh 2) be difficult 3) to make difficult, make difficulty 4) to make severe, make burdensome 5) make stubborn 6) of obstinacy (figuratively) 7) to show stubbornness


Deu 10:17

Deu 10:20 


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